Make Every Mistake A New One

"Failure is among life's least pleasant experiences, but nothing else is as essential to success."
-- Marisa Taylor in an Ode Magazine article

We're trained from an early age to celebrate success, yet we have no training, no cultural norm, around celebrating failure. In fact, we push towards a zero-tolerance for failure. "You got 98 on the test? What happened to the other 2 points?" When we dismiss our failures, we cut ourselves off from rich learning.

I had a job, once, where I was miserable. I had lost respect for the CEO and the way the company was run. Our values were out of sync. For all intents and purposes, the job was an utter failure ... but I stayed for the paycheck. 

Looking back, I learned a lot from it. That job informed the hiring pratice and the client selection process when I co-founded a new business.  My partner and I committed to hiring people and working with clients whose values matched our values and those of our company. And, yes, there were some "learning-rich" failures there, too. We failed. We learned. We adjusted. We moved forward.

Newsweek Magazine commits the last page of every issue to a celebration of failure with a feature called, "My Favorite Mistake." Icons share a pivotal failure and the learning gleened from it: Sara Blakely's "fanny" faux pas on live BBC interview, Dennis Quaid's cocaine addiction, Muhammad Yunus's mistake that cost him the bank he founded.

My invitation to you is to celebrate every failure by acknowledging the learning you are taking from it. And while you're at it, make every mistake a new one!

     Fail. Learn. Move Forward.

I DARE you ...

When I heard about the passing of Steve Jobs last night, I posted the following:

"Through his vision and his inspiration he touched the lives of billions.

He shifted consciousness. With the passing of Steve Jobs, our world

has lost some of it's magic."

 

In part of his official statement last night, President Obama captured the essence of the lesson:

 

Steve [Jobs] was among the greatest of American innovators -

BRAVE ENOUGH to think differently,

BOLD ENOUGH to believe he could change the world and

TALENTED ENOUGH to do it."

 

And as I sat with my daughters listening to the coverage, reading the stories, reliving the memories, I heard my my own comment from earlier in the day echoing in my head:

 

"No vision too great. No detail too small."

 

So I offer to all of us ...

Dare to have an HUGE vision.

Make it impossibly large.

Then dare to make it BIGGER.

Dare to want it.

Dare to believe it is possible.

Dare to know it will BE.

 

Dare to know that we are each enough!

Dare to know that you are MORE THAN ENOUGH!

 

I DARE you.